Elliott Newhouse, 30, from Blackburn, came to East Lancashire Hospice after months of complex hospital treatment for an aggressive tumour that had grown from his nose into his brain. After three major surgeries, intensive care, and chemotherapy, Elliott and his family needed a place where he could receive safe, consistent care, and where they could all feel supported.

A true people-person, Elliott was the kind of man who filled every room he walked into. His fiancée, his friends and family describe Elliott as a social butterfly, a joker, and someone who loved football and spending time with his loved ones. He was happiest surrounded by people, sharing a laugh, enjoying good food and making memories.

In May 2025, Elliott became unwell with what was first thought to be sinusitis. After months of feeling worse, he went to hospital in August, where scans revealed a tumour in his nose that had eroded into his skull and pushed into his brain. A tumour that had grown rapidly since a clear CT scan just months earlier.

During his time in hospital, Elliott became critically unwell and required intensive treatment. Over several days, he underwent major surgery and later received chemotherapy. Despite being told he would never walk, speak or regain his independence, Elliott defied every expectation and slowly began to recover.

For more than 20 years, Mary Stubbs, our Supportive Care Coordinator, has worked in hospice care. She began her career as a Creative Therapist at Bolton Hospice, later supported patients on the Inpatient Unit during the COVID pandemic, and has been a valued part of our Hospice at Home team for the past 18 months. She describes her role at East Lancashire Hospice as a privilege, spending time with patients and their friends and families in their own homes, offering comfort, reassurance and specialist support. Mary reflects: “Being part of the Hospice team gives me hope that in the darkest of times there can be something positive by working together with love and compassion.”

Throughout Mary’s career, dogs have played an important part in how she looks after her own wellbeing. During her first interview in palliative care, she was asked how she would cope with the emotional demands of the role. Mary explains her answer was simple. “I come home, walk my dog, and spend time observing the perfect way dogs live in the moment. They have always helped me through tough times, and I have always been incredibly grateful for the positive experience they bring to my life.”

After a particularly challenging period, Mary felt the need to do something positive. With her commitment to hospice care and her belief in the comfort dogs bring, organising a fundraising dog show felt like a natural step.

Mary has organised dog shows in the past, each one bringing people together through shared joy and community spirit. This year, she’s bringing her experience and working closely with our Events Fundraiser, Lia, to create the Raise the WOOF Dog Show!

For Mary, the Raise the WOOF Dog Show is about far more than a fun day out. It’s rooted in everything she believes hospice care stands for: compassion, community, and the small moments that make a difficult time feel a little lighter. As she explains:

“I see the difference Hospice care brings to not only our patients but their friends and families too. If there is something, no matter how small, that can be done to make them feel a little better, then it’s worth doing.”

Mary knows that hospice care depends on the support of our community so we can continue being here for the people of Blackburn, Darwen, Hyndburn and the Ribble Valley. That’s why bringing people together for something joyful feels so important to her; seeing people come together, having fun and raising money for East Lancashire Hospice: “Hospice care depends on communities providing support. There’s no way we could exist without them. I hope the day brings in much‑needed funds to help the hospice carry on providing the specialist palliative care and support that our community so needs. I want to raise awareness of the importance of voluntary contributions to Hospice care; monetary and hours given. Most of all, I want everyone, especially our dogs, to have the best day.”

In the lead‑up to the event, Mary and Lia will be working with volunteers to prepare the showground, organise activities and make sure the day feels welcoming and full of character. Mary is looking forward to the event: “I’m already working on putting together activities to make the day the best it can be. There’s going to be some interesting dog activities and some good old-fashioned outdoor fun. We will have a range of stalls and a chance to look around Cheltenham Farm Retreat, which our hosts have generously donated.”

Mary’s message to anyone planning to attend is heartfelt:

“Please come along and join us on Sunday, 23rd of August. Have lots of fun. Soak up the atmosphere. Enjoy the community coming together. Give what you can, but most of all take away a positive feeling about hospice care. Fingers crossed for good weather!”

If you would like to support Mary and East Lancashire Hospice, we’d love to welcome you to the Raise the WOOF Dog Show, 10pm – 5pm at Chetham Farm Retreat in Bolton: https://eastlancshospice.org.uk/events/raise-the-woof-dog-show/ 

Dog owners, dog lovers, or people who simply want to enjoy a feel‑good community day while supporting local hospice care are all welcome!

Kirsty, aged 42 from Great Harwood, was referred to East Lancashire Hospice for Complementary Therapy, following a cancer diagnosis. 

From the outside, her life looked full and busy; a growing family, an NHS career, and the anticipation of welcoming a third child. But in June 2023, during what should have been a joyful pregnancy, everything changed.

At 24 weeks pregnant, Kirsty discovered a lump in her breast. Like many mothers who had breastfed, she initially thought it was a blocked milk duct, a common symptom with breastfeeding. But just two weeks later, at 26 weeks pregnant, she received the devastating news that she had breast cancer.

Kirsty began chemotherapy while still pregnant. What should have been a time of excitement and preparation became a period filled with uncertainty, hospital appointments, and fear of the unknown. She faced hair loss, the physical toll of treatment, and the emotional weight of carrying both her baby and a cancer diagnosis. Despite everything, she persevered.

Her experience was isolating. Kirsty often felt she didn’t quite belong anywhere; was she a pregnant woman with cancer, or a cancer patient who happened to be pregnant? She felt like two different patients, rather than one whole person.

Searching for connection, she created an Instagram page, @mummyvscancer. What started as a way to process her own journey soon became a lifeline, not only for Kirsty, but for others. Through sharing her story, she connected with women facing similar diagnoses, built meaningful friendships, and offered support and guidance.

In September 2023, at 36 weeks, Kirsty gave birth to her daughter via C-section. Despite everything she had endured, her baby was born healthy, spending just one day in NICU and unaffected by chemotherapy.

Shortly after birth, Kirsty continued chemotherapy, completing her final session in December 2023. In January 2024, she underwent a lumpectomy and had 25 lymph nodes removed, all of which contained cancer. Although earlier scans had suggested a positive response to treatment, surgery revealed a different reality.

Plans for further preventative surgery were put on hold when, in March 2024, Kirsty was diagnosed with metastatic cancer. The disease had spread to her spine and sternum. She also discovered she carries the BRCA2 gene, meaning her children have a 50% chance of inheriting it.

The physical challenges were immense, but the emotional impact, particularly during radiotherapy, was equally profound. It was during this time that Kirsty began to look beyond clinical treatment for support.

In April 2025, her connection to East Lancashire Hospice became deeply personal when her step-dad, Kevin, received care on the Inpatient Unit. Kirsty and her family were able to stay by his side, spending precious time together in a compassionate and supportive environment. It was here she met Danielle, a Complementary Therapist, who introduced her to a different kind of care, one that focuses on the whole person.

After taking time to grieve, Kirsty was referred to the Complementary Therapy service in January 2026.

Now, she attends one-to-one sessions with Danielle and takes part in the Hospice’s Complementary Therapy Relaxation Group. From her very first appointment, Kirsty felt something she hadn’t felt in a long time; relaxed, listened to, and understood. Danielle took the time to get to know her, not just as a patient, but as a person with a life, a family, and a story.

Previously, Kirsty had often been turned away from massage and holistic therapies due to misconceptions around treating people with cancer. At the Hospice, she found acceptance and expertise.

Her perception of hospice care has completely changed. Where she once associated hospices with fear and end-of-life, she now sees East Lancashire Hospice as a place of warmth, compassion, and support, a place that cares for both patients and their friends and families.

Kirsty has experienced the Hospice from both sides: as a daughter saying goodbye to her step-dad, and as a patient seeking support. In both roles, she felt cared for, respected, and never alone.

Today, life for Kirsty is a constant balancing act; hospital appointments, blood tests, and recovery from ongoing treatments, all while raising three young children and continuing to advocate for cancer awareness during pregnancy. She uses her platform to raise awareness of cancer during pregnancy, encouraging others not to ignore symptoms.

Her youngest child is now two years old, living a full and healthy life. However, for Kirsty, uncertainty continues. She is currently awaiting biopsy results following signs of cancer progression on her Supraclavicular Lymph node.

Despite it all, Kirsty continues to face each day with strength, honesty, and determination, not just for herself, but for her family and for others who are in a similar situation. 

In the UK, two people every day are diagnosed with cancer during or shortly after pregnancy. (British Journal of Cancer)

Kirsty’s story is a powerful reminder of why awareness, early detection, and specialised hospice care matter so much.

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After Jay Lynchehaun, 35, was diagnosed with a grade 4 glioblastoma, he was referred to East Lancashire Hospice for care in our Inpatient Unit in March 2022. Jay had already undergone years of treatment, including surgeries, radiotherapy and chemotherapy, and continued to experience seizures, brain drains and complications.

When the cancer began to grow again during the pandemic, Jay chose to have an awake craniotomy in the hope of giving his family more time. Becky Lynchehaun, Jay’s wife, says, “This was the moment everything changed.” The procedure left Jay paralysed down one side and unable to speak after a stroke on the operating table, and the family were told the tumour was growing faster than ever.

Despite being told they would not be able to have children, Jay defied every expectation. Becky and Jay went on to have two children, Teddy Jay (9) and Orla Harie (6). “We were told the odds were stacked against us, but Jay always proved people wrong.” says Becky.

When it became clear that he needed specialist support, the Hospice became the place where Jay could be cared for safely and comfortably. As Jay’s condition progressed, our Clinical Nurse Specialists team supported the family with conversations about what he wanted for the final stage of his life. 

Becky recalls arriving at the Hospice, “Taking Jay in on his final journey will always stay with me,” she shared, “From the second we arrived, Jay was treated like royalty; he was offered bubble baths and the Cafe Retreat team made us our favourite meal – steak, cooked blue, and chips”

Our Creative and Support Therapies (CaST) team helped the family create memories with sand footprint keepsakes with Jay. “Being in the Hospice allowed Jay to relax, and it allowed me to become a wife again, knowing he was completely cared for medically and emotionally,” shares Becky. “The children still remember playing Connect 4 with Jay, and lying in bed watching a film together.”

In Jay’s final days, Becky remembers how the team supported the whole family. “The Hospice staff rallied around to make not only Jay feel comfortable, but to make his family feel safe. My biggest memory is how dignified they made Jay feel, even when he had passed.”

After Jay’s death, Becky received Bereavement Support sessions at the Hospice. “It was very helpful. They understood what I was going through.”

Before coming to the Hospice, Becky had been anxious about hospice care. Her experience changed that completely. “I can wholeheartedly say I would let any of my nearest and dearest accept hospice care in the future; it made something so life‑shattering a little more comfortable.”

The family recently took part in our Starlight Memories Walk event, where Teddy raised an incredible £2,625 in his dad’s name and was chosen to cut the ribbon to start the walk. Becky told us, “It made the whole experience for Teddy really humble. He was so proud, and he’s already taken his medal into school for show and tell.” The family plans to continue doing fundraising events in the future. 

For anyone unsure about hospice care, Becky wants to reassure them:

“East Lancashire Hospice is a place of care, dignity and kindness. They supported us, they supported Jay, and they gave us time together as a family. I will always be grateful.”

If you would like to find out more about the services available at East Lancashire Hospice, visit https://eastlancshospice.org.uk/

Kevin was admitted to the Inpatient Unit at East Lancashire Hospice following a diagnosis of prostate cancer and died in April, 2025.

Kevin was first diagnosed with prostate cancer in 2016. After treatment, he continued to live a full and active life — a season ticket holder at his beloved Burnley Football Club, spending quality time with his eight grandchildren, and remaining a very much loved part of his community.

A sudden heart attack in 2023, led to a decline in his health. As the cancer spread, he later developed metastatic spinal cord compression, leaving him paralysed and requiring full-time care at home.

As Kevin’s needs increased, he was admitted to the Inpatient Unit at East Lancashire Hospice, where he received specialised palliative care.

From the moment he arrived at the Hospice, the team on the Inpatient Unit, did everything they could to make Kevin feel comfortable and ensure his friends and family felt supported. The family were able to add personal touches, including family photographs placed around the room before he arrived.

“It felt like home almost straight away. The staff couldn’t do enough for us.” expressed his step-daughter, Leah.

“The staff were incredible at listening to our needs. We felt heard and involved throughout the process,” shared his step-daughter, Kerry.

During Kevin’s time at the Hospice, his family were also supported through a number of services. The Creative and Support Therapies (CaST) team created thumbprint keepsakes and memory pebbles, and the family were offered Counselling sessions to help them cope during a difficult time.

Volunteers also played a big part in the family’s experience. “Sylvia, the volunteer, was wonderful. Everyone was so caring. They treated us like family, not just visitors.” the family added.

Kevin’s family were able to stay close to him in the overnight family room, giving them space to spend meaningful time together, without worrying about practical responsibilities.

“It gave us the chance to just be together, as a family,” said his partner, Lorraine.

The Hospice gardens also provided a quiet place for reflection. “Being able to walk in the garden and listen to the birds really helped. Tommy, the Volunteer Gardener at the Hospice, showed us an app to find out which birds we were hearing. Those small moments meant a lot.” Lorraine added.

Both Kevin’s two sons, Karl and Scott, and his three stepdaughters, Leah, Kirsty and Kerry, and his partner Lorraine, were all able to stay day and night, by Kevin’s bedside for the duration of his final days.

Inspired by their experience, Kevin’s family have since raised funds and created care packs for families staying at the Hospice. During the time they spent at Kevin’s bedside, they realised many families arrive at the Hospice without personal items such as toothbrushes or toothpaste, and wanted to ensure that other families had access to basic toiletries when they needed them most. 

“We didn’t want anyone else to worry about the little things whilst going through something so difficult,” his step-daughter Kirsty, added.

Kevin’s family continue to stay connected to East Lancashire Hospice by attending events and supporting fundraising activities. They regularly attend events such as ‘Sunflower Memories’ and ‘Light Up a Life’, and family members have now signed up to take part in the ‘Three Peaks Challenge.’

Some members of the family are also hoping to volunteer at the Hospice, wanting to give back, after the care Kevin and the family received.

Before Kevin came to the Hospice, the family said they felt some apprehension about what to expect.

“You hear the word hospice, and it can feel daunting, but it’s nothing like what people imagine,” shared Kevin’s family.

Their experience has completely changed how they view hospice care.

“Visit the Hospice. We would encourage anyone who feels unsure to come and see it for themselves. Even if it’s just for a coffee in the café. It’s a very special place,” his family added.

If you’ve been inspired by Kevin’s story, and would like to support his family with their fundraising efforts in creating toiletry packs, please make a donation here: https://www.gofundme.com/f/packsfrompops  

After Colin was diagnosed with skin cancer, he was referred to East Lancashire Hospice for support from the Hospice at Home team. 

In the last three weeks of Colin’s life, the Hospice at Home team visited regularly. They helped with washing and personal care, both during the day and overnight, giving Kathleen time to rest or go shopping for a few hours each day. 

“They gave me time to breathe. The support I received meant everything; it meant I could properly rest, knowing Colin was in safe hands.”

After Colin’s death, Kathleen decided to attend the Bereavement Support Cafe at East Lancashire Hospice. 

“I love coming to the Bereavement Cafe, the group has helped me so much, I feel I’m meant to be here for some reason; it gives me comfort visiting the Hospice, and it’s been a great place for me to meet people who are going through the same thing.” 

During the festive season, Kathleen suggested holding a quiz and creating Christmas crafts at the Bereavement Cafe, which resulted in the group creating memory baubles to take home. 

For Kathleen, the Hospice is not just a place of care, but a place of connection.

“When I come into the Hospice, it’s nice to see the people who cared for my husband, like Chris and Leah from the Hospice at Home team. Seeing those familiar faces reminds me of him, but also how well he was cared for.”

For many, the idea of visiting a Hospice can feel daunting, but Kathleen wants to reassure people that East Lancashire Hospice is a place of warmth, laughter and care. 

“For anyone thinking of attending the Hospice, I would definitely recommend it. It gives you a feeling of belonging. It’s a very welcoming space. Some people question me when I tell people that I really look forward to going to the Hospice, but I explain it’s not what you imagine, it’s welcoming, not clinical at all.”

Looking ahead, Kathleen says she would not feel afraid if she ever needed the Hospice’s support herself.

“If I ever needed the Hospice, I would not be afraid to come.”

Despite Colin’s death, Kathleen feels grateful for the life they shared.

“I consider myself very lucky. What Colin and I had was something very special. I hope everyone finds a Colin, because this world would be a better place. I’ve got a good support network of friends, and my two daughters, Alison and Carol, look after me. I’m very grateful.”

If you would like to find out more about the services available at East Lancashire Hospice, visit www.eastlancshospice.org.uk/our-care/

In memory of his mum, Sarah, Sean Towers has taken on a series of running challenges, including the Manchester and Loch Ness Marathons, raising money for East Lancashire Hospice, where his mother died last year. Sean also completed a 30-mile tribute run from East Lancashire Hospice to Blackpool Tower, which was to honour his mother’s wishes to visit Blackpool Zoo and their shared memories at the Hospice.

When Sean’s mum, Sarah Towers, first came to East Lancashire Hospice, he admits he didn’t know what to expect. “I thought it would be like a hospital, but the Hospice is so homely and peaceful, it’s nothing like I imagined”, explained Sean.

During her time at East Lancashire Hospice, Sarah was referred to the Inpatient Unit, where she also received Complementary Therapy sessions. She enjoyed spending time in the Hospice gardens whenever she could, soaking up the sunshine over summer. Sean remembers sleeping in a recliner chair beside her bed for the final few nights. Other family members used the overnight stay room within the Hospice. The staff made sure everyone was comfortable; “They couldn’t do enough for us, they even let me keep items in the cafe fridges”, Sean added. Sarah had a close bond with many of the Hospice staff, in particular, Michael on the Inpatient Unit, who had coincidentally also cared for Sean’s grandad with the Hospice at Home team.

Some of their families’ most precious memories are shared with Sean’s young daughter. At only 18 months old, when her grandma died, she loved exploring the Hospice gardens. Even months later, when the family attended the Sunflower Memorial Event at East Lancashire Hospice, they found her searching for the flamingo situated in the garden pond. To this day, she refers to the Hospice as ‘Granny’s Special House’.

Sean’s mum had planned to visit Blackpool Zoo, to see her favourite animal, the orangutan. The family had a coach booked to make the trip happen, but sadly, she was admitted to the Hospice just two days before the visit. Months later, Sean took his partner and daughter to the zoo, and when he finally reached the orangutan enclosure, he was overwhelmed with emotion, “I honestly cried my eyes out, thinking of her”, he shared.

In memory of his mum, Sean has taken on a series of running challenges, from the Manchester and Loch Ness Marathons to a 30-mile run from East Lancashire Hospice to Blackpool; a symbolic journey to the place his mum longed to visit. So far, he’s raised over £4,000 for the Hospice. Even Sean’s daughter has joined in the fundraising efforts, taking part in the Hospice’s Hop, Skip, and Jump event, proudly bunny-hopping her way to raise sponsorship.

Sean reflects, “We honestly couldn’t have picked a better place for my mum to spend her last days.”

If you’d like to support Sean’s fundraising efforts for East Lancashire Hospice, please donate using this link: https://www.justgiving.com/page/seantowers

Mick first used East Lancashire Hospice’s bereavement services eight years ago following the death of his mother Eunice.

The former gardener, who has heart disease, was looked after by his mum after he suffered a huge heart attack which led to open heart surgery.

“My mum was a diamond, and looked after me when I had my heart attack. I may never get over losing my mum – but the bereavement sessions at the hospice have helped. I know that there are people here for me.”

Alongside using the bereavement services at the hospice, Mick also attends the Creative and Support Therapies (CaST) sessions each week, where he enjoys getting involved in a range of complimentary sessions including art, crafts, singing and more.

“When my mum died, I had a mental breakdown and the group has helped me to come back slowly. I feel like I am under a constant grey cloud – but the staff and the other patients have tried to help me through my journey. When I come to the hospice, I feel like the world is a little better.

“Coming to the hospice provides me with a change of scenery and for me, that helps. I don’t think I’d still be here if it wasn’t for East Lancashire Hospice. Everyone is so friendly and they all try and help you. Everyone is dealing with something, and I have made some lovely friends.”

One of the therapies Mick enjoys most during the CaST sessions is painting. In particular, creating abstracts using watercolours.

Mick has used a range of services provided by the hospice and also enjoys using the Complementary Therapy services; in particular, the aromatherapy massage, and jacuzzi bathing services, which help him to relax both his mind and body.

Mick, who uses a wheelchair, said: “I don’t have the facilities at home to have a bath. At the hospice, I really enjoy using the bathing service. There are twinkling lights and you can have music playing whilst you bathe. It’s so relaxing – and it really helps my legs too.”

Mick, who gets taken to and from the hospice via Patient Transport from his home in Oswaldtwistle, added: “They are all stars here. All the staff and volunteers deserve a medal. Everybody is so caring, and so kind, and they are there for you.”

Speaking to people who have never been to the hospice before, Mick said: “I wouldn’t be nervous. The Hospice is a special place. It’s full of happiness even on the dark days.”

Mark, from Great Harwood, never expected that one day he would rely on the support of East Lancashire Hospice.

A former ward clerk at Blackburn Hospital, Mark was used to fast-paced 12-hour shifts and a life of service within the NHS. But everything changed when he was diagnosed with Stage 4 Metastatic Prostate Cancer.

After being given just three months to live, Mark was referred to the Inpatient Unit at East Lancashire Hospice, where he spent six months. During that time, he received round-the-clock care and rehabilitation, eventually returning home with support from the Hospice at Home team.

“The Hospice at Home team provided so much more than physical support; I don’t think I’d be here without them,” Mark shared.

The team visited twice a week, their help extending far beyond expectations.

The team supported his emotional well-being, taking him out to Memorial Park in Great Harwood to enjoy the fresh air and provide a sense of freedom.

“Going from fast-paced NHS shifts to a quiet home was a huge adjustment; that human contact from the Hospice at Home team was what kept me going,” Mark explained.

As his strength returned, Mark was referred to the CaST (Creative and Support Therapies) department. Initially hesitant, he eventually joined the creative workshops and found a new lease of life.

“Meeting other patients was honestly a tonic. I’ve made close friends, and now some of us even volunteer to deliver meals in the community. Being creative and setting yourself a challenge gives you purpose and keeps your imagination alive,” he shared.

Mark regularly uses the Hospice services and has more recently been referred to the Complementary Therapy department. Having struggled with chronic insomnia, Reiki, a therapy used by the Complementary Therapy team, has allowed him to relax deeply enough to enjoy a full night’s sleep. For Mark, this wasn’t just about rest; it was vital for supporting his mental wellbeing.

Mark has utilised the services provided by East Lancashire Hospice still further, receiving support from the Counselling team.

“The counselling sessions have helped me come to terms with my new life. I know how expensive private therapy can be, so being able to access counselling at the Hospice, for free, when I needed it most, meant everything,” said Mark.

Looking back at his experience with East Lancashire Hospice, Mark shares, “All I can say to summarise is thank God for East Lancashire Hospice.”

If you would like to find out more about East Lancashire Hospice, or any of the services highlighted in Mark’s story, please visit: https://eastlancshospice.org.uk/our-care

Kerry Lowe, aged 61, from Langho in the Ribble Valley, was first referred to East Lancashire Hospice, following a referral from the Oncology team at Burnley General Hospital.

Since receiving support from the Counsellors at East Lancashire Hospice, she has also started to receive support from the Complementary Therapy team.

Kerry was first diagnosed with breast cancer nine years ago. She underwent chemotherapy, a single mastectomy, radiotherapy and hormone treatment. After finishing her treatment, she gradually began to rebuild her confidence and sense of self.

Three years ago, during a routine check-up, a CT scan revealed she had secondary cancer, this time in her liver and lymph nodes. Although the cancer was caught very early, Kerry found the news frightening.

Kerry explained, “I’d really picked myself up after overcoming breast cancer. I knew cancer could come back, but hearing those words again was terrifying. At the time, I thought secondary cancer was a death sentence, but it isn’t.” Kerry now lives a healthy life with targeted treatment that keeps her cancer stable.

Throughout her experience, Kerry felt physically well, but mentally, the journey was far more difficult. She described feeling fear, uncertainty, and a loss of identity, particularly when she lost her hair. Watching how her diagnosis affected her family, including her husband and two sons, was especially hard.

After struggling to process her news, Kerry began counselling sessions with Lucy, one of our Hospice counsellors. “Lucy was amazing. She reassured me that I could still live my life. She helped me turn things around from a pot of gloom and made me realise that even with a diagnosis, I still have a life to live.”

She describes living with cancer as, “Feeling in no man’s land, my cancer is under control, but it will never be cured. For a long time, I couldn’t even talk about it. But now with the help of Lucy, I share my story because I know it helps others to hear it.”

After 10 counselling sessions, Kerry felt a noticeable change in her well-being, “I used to get panic attacks, but Lucy has taught me coping mechanisms. Counselling has helped me see what truly matters; other things in life seem so small now.”

Alongside counselling, Kerry receives Complementary Therapy, including reflexology, which she says lifts her mood every time. “Complementary Therapy is amazing, not just the treatments, but being here at the Hospice. I’ve met people going through the same thing and made real friends, who understand.”

For Kerry, East Lancashire Hospice has become a safe and uplifting place. “Everything about the Hospice is so welcoming, from the volunteers on reception who greet you with a smile, to the staff who can’t do enough to help. At first, you think a hospice is only for very serious illnesses. But now, I just think of it as a place where I can come for a coffee, get support, and feel better. It’s such an uplifting place and has been such a massive help to me.”

If you feel inspired by Kerry’s story, or would like to find out more about the services provided by East Lancashire Hospice, please visit: www.eastlancshospice.org.uk

For June Buck from Blackburn, East Lancashire Hospice has become a place of transformation, both physically and emotionally.

After her husband and carer, Kev, died suddenly, June had to live with life-limiting illnesses alone, whilst grieving the death of her partner.

Having been diagnosed with osteoarthritis, heart failure and kidney disease, June’s mobility was limited – unable to access the upstairs of her home for over six years.

June was first referred to the Bereavement Support Team at East Lancashire Hospice, and after receiving care, was later referred to the Bathing service.

“I never imagined I’d get to enjoy a real bath again after receiving bed baths for the last six years”, shared June. “As soon as I was in the Jacuzzi bath, my stress just melted away.”

Since then, June has accessed the bathing service regularly with Therapist, Cherish, and as a result, her mobility has been restored to around 50%. Once entirely reliant on a wheelchair, June is now able to walk again with a stick.

“I’ve been able to walk with my stick and get out into my garden. Even my neighbours called over the fence, asking what on earth I was doing up and about!”

Her son and grandson have noticed the change in her behaviour, witnessing her renewed independence and energy. “You don’t realise the stress you carry in your body until something like this helps you let it go,” June commented.

The combination of the two services provided by East Lancashire Hospice has helped her both physically and mentally. “The Hospice has helped me to realise there’s still so much to live for,” she said.

Reflecting on her time at East Lancashire Hospice, June added, “Everyone at the Hospice has time for you, you’re treated like family; even the volunteers on reception know your name.”

If you’d like to find out more about the services provided at East Lancashire Hospice, please visit eastlancshospice.org.uk

For Islay, volunteering at East Lancashire Hospice has been a part of her life for more than thirteen years.

When she first joined in 2012, without any personal connection to the Hospice, she just knew it was a cause she wanted to support. Since then, her friends have been cared for by the Hospice, making her role even more meaningful.

With a background in retail, Islay had always known she wanted to volunteer, but she was looking for something different. After speaking to friends who already volunteered in our charity shops and fundraising team, she decided to see what other opportunities were available. That decision later led her to the Inpatient Unit (IPU), a place she now describes as ‘warm, comforting, and full of kindness.’

Islay started her volunteering journey on the Inpatient Unit Reception desk, welcoming families and helping with administration tasks. Over time, her hours increased, and she moved into a more hands-on role on the ward. Today, she volunteers one day a week, serving meals to patients, offering tea and coffee to families, and spending invaluable time chatting with patients. “I try to do anything that helps relieve the nurses; they’re absolutely incredible and go above and beyond for everyone.” she shared.

Some of Islay’s most treasured moments have been witnessing the many weddings that take place in the Hospice.

“Volunteering at East Lancashire Hospice is so worthwhile. We always need more volunteers, so if you’re thinking about it, do it now, do it yesterday! Whatever time you can spare is so appreciated.” she shared.

When people hear she volunteers at the Hospice, Islay says their first reaction is often sympathy. “They ask, ‘Isn’t it sad?’ But I tell them they couldn’t be more wrong; it’s such a happy place. The staff create a warm, positive atmosphere for patients and families, it’s a real privilege to be part of that.”

If you’ve been inspired by Islay’s story and would like to join our volunteering team, visit our website to find out more – eastlancshospice.org.uk

Barbara Starkey, aged 73, from Whalley, has been volunteering at East Lancashire Hospice for over two and a half years. She volunteers on the reception desk, greeting patients, visitors, and families with a warm smile; a role she loves as it allows her to connect with people.

Her path into volunteering began quite unexpectedly. After seeing a volunteer advert for East Lancashire Hospice, she was encouraged by a friend to apply, who had been volunteering at their own local hospice. Eager for a fresh challenge, she decided to give it a try.

Barbara has experienced first-hand the care East Lancashire Hospice provides, after her neighbour was cared for and died at the Hospice. More recently, her friend from horse riding has been receiving hospice care and was discharged from the Inpatient Unit after receiving symptom management.

Barbara has embraced every opportunity to engage with the local community. She has hosted educational and awareness visits to the Hospice with her Women’s Institute group, including a ladies’ lunch to fundraise for the Hospice. Her curiosity and love of culture also led her to attend the hospice’s Iftar event, where she learned about Ramadan traditions, tried different cuisines, and spoke with people from a range of different backgrounds about the culture of giving.

Outside of the Hospice, Barbara is an avid traveller; her favourite destinations include India, New Zealand, and Spain. She likes to practise her Spanish and immerse herself in the food, scenery, and local culture. She enjoys aerobics, book clubs, and discussion groups in Whalley, always keen to connect with others and learn something new.

For Barbara, volunteering is about more than giving back; it gives her purpose and a sense of belonging. “It makes me feel like I’ve got value after retiring, I love being part of something that helps people in such a meaningful way,” expressed Barbara.

If you’ve been inspired by Barbara’s volunteer journey, or would like to find out more about the volunteering opportunities at East Lancashire Hospice, please visit www.eastlancshospice.org.uk

When David Clarke’s mum spent her final three days on the Inpatient Unit at East Lancashire Hospice, he was moved by the care he witnessed. At home, her final days had been surrounded by lots of visitors; however, once she was admitted to the Hospice, her immediate family got to spend a lot more time with her. David remembers. “It was calm, peaceful and gave us time to really be together as a family.”

After David’s mum died, his dad received counselling support from the Hospice team, helping him navigate his grief. Inspired by the compassionate care their family experienced, David’s grandad chose to give back by volunteering with the Hospice’s retail team.

The strong sense of community at East Lancashire Hospice left a lasting impression on David, igniting a passion that has driven him to take on fundraising challenges for more than a decade.

Over the past ten years, David has raised an impressive £29,000 for East Lancashire Hospice. His goal is to raise £30,000, covering the cost of the care his mother received.

Year 1: A 40th Birthday

David’s fundraising began in 2015, when he decided to turn his 40th birthday into something meaningful. A family fun day, complete with stalls, a magician and a tombola, helped to raise funds for the Hospice, totalling an incredible £1,800. “I never thought we’d raise that much,” he says. “That’s what first gave me the bug for fundraising.”

Year 2: The National Three Peaks

The following year, David took on the National Three Peaks. Accompanied by his 17 friends, two minibuses and a local personal trainer guiding them along the way, the team completed the challenge in just 24 hours!

Year 3: The Yorkshire Three Peaks

After completing the National Three Peaks the previous year, David decided a new challenge was on the horizon; this time, he tackled the Yorkshire Three Peaks. Along with his five friends, a few wrong turns, and plenty of laughter, the team completed the challenge in an impressive 9 hours.

Year 4: Lockdown Workout

When COVID-19 struck, and the Hospice’s fundraising events were cancelled, David refused to stop his fundraising efforts. He livestreamed a 9-hour workout from home, which even made a feature on the national news. David shared, “I loved this challenge because my wife and children got to see me complete it and cheer me on throughout. It was a particularly important year because it was hard for the Hospice to fundraise during COVID-19.”

Year 5: The West Highland Way

The West Highland Way was next on David’s list. David’s brother and his 10 friends walked a gruelling 96 miles from Glasgow to Fort William, finishing at the summit of Ben Nevis.

Year 6: The Welsh 3000s

Year 6 was the hardest to date, with David tackling The Welsh 3000s, a 15-peak, mountain challenge in North Wales. David completed the challenge with a knee injury and challenging weather conditions.

Year 7: Triple Yorkshire Three Peaks

David revisited an old route for his seventh challenge; however, he wanted to up the ante, by completing the Yorkshire three peaks, three times over, within three days.

On the third day, David was accompanied by his family, including his aunties, uncles and cousins. David explained, “It felt like a procession; I felt especially connected to the challenge, as I was surrounded by my family”. 

Year 8: The Jurassic Coast

Year 8 saw David take on the Jurassic Coast Challenge. David walked an incredible 103 miles over four days along the South West Coast, finishing in Exmouth.

Year 9: Two treks with breathtaking views

Last year, David walked the Great Glen Way, walking 78 miles over three days. Deciding one challenge simply wasn’t enough, he decided to walk 162 miles over seven days on the John O’Groats Trail. “The sunrises and views of the cliffs were spectacular, we spotted seals, puffins and herons because the route was so remote, it was truly special.”

Year 10: The biggest challenge yet

This Christmas, David turns 50, and will also mark 10 years of fundraising for East Lancashire Hospice. He recalls how, as a child, he and his mother would find themselves out on rambles; making memories that last a lifetime.

To celebrate the milestones, David is taking on his most ambitious challenge yet: Climbing Mount Kilimanjaro in memory of his mum.

Over the years, David has climbed many mountains across the UK, but this one is different. His journey will start in a tropical rain forest and end surrounded by snow-covered peaks. With a vast spectrum of weather conditions, this will be a huge challenge.

David shared, “I’m buzzing for this challenge. I’m a little bit scared of getting altitude sickness, but I’m currently training with a mask that simulates high altitude. Nothing else I’ve done comes close to this.”

If you’ve been inspired by David’s story and would like to make a donation in contribution to his fundraising challenge, please click the link below: https://www.justgiving.com/page/david-clarke-kili50?utm_medium=FA&utm_source=WA

Damian, aged only 35, has a rare type of cancer, which has led him to have Metastatic Spinal Cord Compression, resulting in him becoming a wheelchair user. He was referred to East Lancashire Hospice on the Inpatient Unit in June, 2025.

During his stay at East Lancashire Hospice, Damian utilised multiple services, including the Bathing service, Complementary Therapy, and the Creative and Support Therapies (CaST) service.

Reflecting on his experience using the bathing service, he shared, “I was hoisted from my bed to the bathing room, but I was never made to feel like a burden; I felt safe and secure at all times.”

He particularly enjoyed the Complementary Therapy sessions, in particular Reiki, which brought him deep relaxation. “The diffuser provided soothing scents and made it a brilliant experience,” Damian shared.

Damian and his wife Jess have two young children, and with the help of our CaST team, the family created a memory box, collecting handprints and other keepsakes. Alongside this, Damian personalised two memory bears for his daughters, recording a voice note, his heartbeat and selecting a scent to put into the bears.

One evening on the Inpatient Unit was particularly memorable for Damian and Jess as the staff from Cafe Retreat organised a date night for the couple, including a delicious three-course meal, made by Chef Kevin. “It was so kind of the staff from Cafe Retreat to organise a date night for me and Jess, it was such a surprise and the meal was delicious – it made life feel normal again”.

Despite being in a wheelchair and on the Inpatient Unit, Damian and Jess had one goal that they still wanted to achieve; to attend a comedy show in Liverpool they’d long been looking forward to.

With the support of our Physiotherapists, Fundraising team, and an incredibly kind volunteer named Colin, a plan came together, helping to make the couple’s date night a reality.

Hospice Volunteer, Colin, who works at Blackburn with Darwen Dial-a-Ride, donated his time and a wheelchair-accessible vehicle to drive Damian and Jess to the show safely. Not only did he go above and beyond to make Damian feel secure on his first-ever wheelchair-accessible journey, but he also stayed as their companion and helped the couple throughout their visit.

“It gave us a sense of normality as husband and wife again. We’ll be forever grateful to the team at East Lancashire Hospice, Dial-a-Ride, and especially Colin,” Damian explained.

Since the event, Colin has helped the family yet again, transporting Damian to and from his daughter’s school for a special visit.

As a thank you to the Hospice, Damian and his family are raising money for East Lancashire Hospice, if you’d like to support his fundraising efforts, please visit: https://www.justgiving.com/page/damian-james-1?utm_source=SFMC&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=FR-heroes_FRPo_Overall-position_uk&mi_u=43554000&mi_ecmp=FR-heroes_FRPo_Overall-position_uk&fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR4-PNpAxatWerzJ-texHdpmo0Q8DWQ1QTPdtqBUF7CB2X4b6UP11zqLvO8DbQ_aem_yIJa8JdBzUur_aceiRnoVw

To find out more about the services provided at East Lancashire Hospice, please visit; eastlancshospice.org.uk