Mick's Story
East Lancashire Hospice is a special place – Mick’s Story
Mick first used East Lancashire Hospice’s bereavement services eight years ago following the death of his mother Eunice.
The former gardener, who has heart disease, was looked after by his mum after he suffered a huge heart attack which led to open heart surgery.
“My mum was a diamond, and looked after me when I had my heart attack. I may never get over losing my mum - but the bereavement sessions at the hospice have helped. I know that there are people here for me.”
Alongside using the bereavement services at the hospice, Mick also attends the Creative and Support Therapies (CaST) sessions each week, where he enjoys getting involved in a range of complimentary sessions including art, crafts, singing and more.
“When my mum died, I had a mental breakdown and the group has helped me to come back slowly. I feel like I am under a constant grey cloud – but the staff and the other patients have tried to help me through my journey. When I come to the hospice, I feel like the world is a little better.
“Coming to the hospice provides me with a change of scenery and for me, that helps. I don’t think I’d still be here if it wasn’t for East Lancashire Hospice. Everyone is so friendly and they all try and help you. Everyone is dealing with something, and I have made some lovely friends.”
One of the therapies Mick enjoys most during the CaST sessions is painting. In particular, creating abstracts using watercolours.
Mick has used a range of services provided by the hospice and also enjoys using the Complementary Therapy services; in particular, the aromatherapy massage, and jacuzzi bathing services, which help him to relax both his mind and body.
Mick, who uses a wheelchair, said: “I don’t have the facilities at home to have a bath. At the hospice, I really enjoy using the bathing service. There are twinkling lights and you can have music playing whilst you bathe. It’s so relaxing – and it really helps my legs too.”
Mick, who gets taken to and from the hospice via Patient Transport from his home in Oswaldtwistle, added: “They are all stars here. All the staff and volunteers deserve a medal. Everybody is so caring, and so kind, and they are there for you.”
Speaking to people who have never been to the hospice before, Mick said: “I wouldn’t be nervous. The Hospice is a special place. It’s full of happiness even on the dark days.”