Tony & Maureen's Story

For Tony Ford and his partner of 30 years, Maureen Simpson, East Lancashire Hospice’s Hospice at Home service has become a vital source of comfort, connection, and care.

Tony, from Great Harwood, lives with dementia, and as his health has declined, the support of the Hospice at Home team has made a meaningful difference to both him and Maureen.

“The support that East Lancashire Hospice provide is just incredible,” Tony shared. “When you’re struggling with a life-limiting illness, it means so much to have someone come in and help you through the day. You find yourself looking forward to their visits. It’s very comforting.”

Maureen, who is Tony’s main carer, agrees wholeheartedly. “We’ve been using the service since just before Christmas, and we’re so pleased with the care we’ve received. It’s given us a real sense of security.”

Their decision to use the Hospice at Home service was an easy one. “Tony’s not very mobile anymore, and without a car, getting to the hospice would be difficult. This way, we get the support we need right here in our own home,” Maureen explained.

The couple particularly appreciate the personal touch the nurses bring. “They don’t just check in medically, they take time to chat, to get to know you,” said Tony. “That kind of connection makes the day more meaningful.” Maureen added, “When they’re here, I can step away and do some shopping or just have a little time to myself, knowing Tony is in safe hands. That break is so important. It’s what carers need.”

Their journey with the hospice began through their district nurse, who suggested reaching out to East Lancashire Hospice. After a visit and a tour of the facilities, they were introduced to the full range of services offered, and haven’t looked back since.

To others who might be unsure about using the service, Tony has a clear message: “Don’t hesitate. It makes such a difference, not just to the person who’s unwell, but to their carers, friends and family too.”

Tony also urges people to support the hospice however they can. “It’s a free service, but it only runs because of donations. If people didn’t donate, how would you keep such an incredible place going? Every penny helps bring this level of care into people’s homes. It really is exceptional.”

Thanks to the Hospice at Home service, Tony and Maureen can face each day with a little more peace, dignity, and joy.

With your support, you can ensure that more families like Tony and Maureen can benefit from compassionate care from the comfort of their own home.

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